REFRAMES
Writing down the reframes I’ve decided to implement
Success Reframes
| Usual | Reframe |
|---|---|
| I want to do (something) | I have decided to do (something) |
| Manage your time | Manage your energy |
| Focus on being excellent at a skill that has commercial value | Acquire skills that work well together and make you rare and flexible at the same time |
| Success depends on who you know | Success depends on how many people you know |
| Learn what you need | Learn continuously, especially skills that work well together |
Mental Health Reframes
| Usual | Reframe |
|---|---|
| Find yourself | Author yourself |
| My feelings are the result of my situation | How I feel is my choice |
| Your ego is “you,” and it must be protected | Your ego is your enemy |
| You need to stop thinking negative thoughts | You can’t subtract negative thoughts. But you can crowd them out |
| Stress comes with the job | Reducing stress IS your job |
| Avoid addiction | Choose your addictions wisely |
| There are good days and bad | All days are useful in different ways |
| I can’t handle this for the rest of my life | I can do anything for a day |
| I am angry because something happened | I am living in the past |
| I am anxious | I am living in the future (but not in a good way) |
Social Life Reframes
| Usual | Reframe |
|---|---|
| Be yourself | Become a better version of yourself |
| Learn to love yourself as you are | Be glad your brain is pestering you to improve |
Physical Health Reframes
| Usual | Reframe |
|---|---|
| I’m hungry, so I need food | I’m hungry, so I need protein |
| I can’t get to sleep | I didn’t work hard enough |
| I am tempted by bad carbs | I’m not the kind of person who eats bad carbs |
Reframe Your Brain: The User Interface for Happiness and Success https://bookshop.org/p/books/reframe-your-brain-the-user-interface-for-happiness-and-success-scott-adams/20480490?ean=9798988534907
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